Tuesday, October 18, 2011

From the begining...... part 2

July 2009 ~ "Cinderella" arrived to live with us. She was very shy, quiet and was nervous about her new school. but all in all she adjusted quite well.

August 2009 ~ "Cinderella" started school (5th grade) she made really good grades, made honor roll every semester except the last one. (She got one c on that report card) She had adjusted amazingly well, she called me mom, (not by force, but because she wanted to. she confided in me and was very loving towards me)

"Evil Ex Wife" had called her a few times, tried to start drama but really did not have much interaction with "Cinderella" The "Evils" on the other hand did try to stay in her life, calling, requesting overnight stays (which "Father" agreed to) ("Father" had been paying child support to "Evil Ex Wife" this whole time)

We made it through the summer and on to the next school year. (6th grade)

"Evil Ex Wife" has made no mention of wanting "Cinderella" back.

Untill I got wind that she was telling everyone in her home town and family members that "Cinderella" was coming home at spring break and would be staying.

I told "Evil Ex Wife" that she should have contacted "Father" before spreading a rumor that was untrue.
She came back bashing me and my parenting skills. And said that she was coming to get "Cinderella" and "Father" would never see her. (Of course Im leaving out some of the conversation, for one i cant remember every word and two she has a horrible potty mouth)

At this point "Father" files court documents to modify custody of "Cinderella" 
As soon as the "Evil ExWife" recieved her papers she drove 3 days to get here and had help from the "Evils" and they took "Cinderella" and refused to give her back. There was nothing we could do, the police said that since the most recent court papers (from the divorce stated "Evil ExWife" had primary physical custody of "Cinderella") they could not leagally do anything for us.

"Evil Ex Wife" and the "Evils" slandered us and told "Cinderella" countless lies about "Father" and I.
When they finally brought "Cinderella" home, to "Father" and I. Cinderella was no longer happy and talkative. Not only did she have hatred towards me but towards "Father" as well.

(Durring this whole time, I had and continue to have an amazing friend who we share so much in common with. we will call her

                          "The Queen"
 She was my rock and has continued to be. I love her so much. She is the one that took care of "Cinderella" and her siblings, before "Father" and I were fully in the picture)

To be continued.......

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